I have quite a few friends who've had baby's recently and only a couple of them had meal registry's set up. I think it's something that new mom's to be don't necessarily think about but doesn't hurt to go ahead and do. And here's the deal: people WANT to bring you food. They WANT to help you right after your baby is born and this is a great way for them to do that. It is not overly selfish or weird to set one up and tell friends about it.
A meal registry is super easy to create and what I like about it is it informs people what you are allergic to or what you don't like/won't eat. Plus people can pick what days they want to bring something for you so you don't get 5 meals all on one night. People are going to bring you food and this is just a way for them to organize when and what they bring. The only challenging thing with setting up a registry is knowing when you need the meals as baby's due date is usually unknown. However, if you're really good, you can go back in and update the dates after baby's arrival.
The meal registry site I like the best is MealBaby (and no, this is not an endorsed post). It's free and simple to use (on both the giver and receiver ends) but there are other sites as well that do the same thing if you just do an internet search. On MealBaby, you can also select specific restaurant gift cards to give if someone doesn't want to actually cook anything.
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Showing posts with label Newborns. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Newborns. Show all posts
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What Do Newborns Really Look Like?
Before having a child of my own, when picturing my future baby, I always imagined a rosy cheeked little cherub child. But anyone who has been around a newborn knows that most babies are not born that way. We all know they tend to look "scrunchy," swollen, and pink… but there are many other features that are common in new babies- some of which may be surprising to new parents!
Cone/Large Head: Newborn skull bones are soft and aren't fused together yet in order to accommodate birth and the growing brain. Cone heads are common and are usually caused when the baby is stuck in the birth canal for too long. Luckily, the head will usually round back out again after a few days. All babies' heads are large in comparison to their bodies because their brains are much further developed than their bodies at birth.
Body Hair: Some babies are born with fine hair all over their body called Lanugo. This hair forms in the womb to keep babies warm before they are fully developed and usually disappears before birth. For this reason, lanugo hair is usually found on premature babies. It will disappear within a few days or weeks.Disfigured Body/Belly: The legs and arms of a newborn are not surprisingly, usually bent and bowed from spending all that time in the womb. They will stretch out soon enough. A baby belly will usually resemble a bloated frog, then will become more Buddha-shaped after a few months.
White Substance on Skin: Many babies will be born with Vernix Caseosa, a white, cheesy/waxy substance on their skin. This is perfectly healthy and can simply be wiped off or rubbed into the baby's skin as a moisturizer.
Soft Spots: All babies have two soft spots on their heads, called Fontanels, located on top of the head at the front, and one in the back under the crown. These are the places where the skull bones aren't yet fused together in order to allow for birth and for the brain to continue growing. They are okay to touch gently, and they will typically stay around for the first year or two of life.
Discolored/Splotchy Skin: Most babies are born a purplish/red color, then will turn pinker over a few hours. Some babies will develop jaundice and as a result will take on a yellow skin tone. Some may have red patches above the hairline at the back of the neck, on the eyelids or between the eyes. These may fade with time or become less noticeable. Dark-skinned babies are often born with a large gray mark on the bottom or lower back called Dermal Melanosis, which also goes away after a few weeks or months. Little white spots may be found on the face or other areas of the body called Milia. These, too, will usually fade with time.
Swollen Face/Genitalia: At birth, newborn bodies are full of hormones from their mothers and fluids from the womb. A result of this are swollen body parts, including the eyes, nose, nipples and genitalia.
Baby Girl "Period": Strange as it sounds, baby girls may have a mini "period" after birth or some vaginal discharge. This is the result of the baby flushing out mother's hormones and is nothing to be concerned about.
Eye Color: A baby's eye color is never certain right after birth. Many are born with blue or gray eyes that change after a few months; others acquire their true color right away. They could take years to reveal their true form (but as we all know, eyes can even change in adulthood!) But by 6-9 months of age, a baby's eyes will probably remain the way they are.
Baby Acne: These small red bumps appear after a couple of weeks after birth and will usually go away on their own after another few weeks. This, too, is caused by the flushing out of mom's hormones from the baby's body.
Hair Loss: If your baby is born with hair, he/she may keep it, or lose it over the next few months. A bald spot may form where the head rubs against surfaces (the back of the head is a common spot). The hair may not grow back in until 6 months of age or later.
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