Showing posts with label Need or Not. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Need or Not. Show all posts

Friday, April 19, 2013

Packing a Hospital or Birth Bag

For whatever reason, I got a strong urge the other day to start to put together our hospital bag. We are still roughly 10 weeks ago from our targeted due date but after reading a couple birth stories about baby coming in month 7 or 8, I am inclined to have it ready just in case. I put together a list based on ideas from other moms and from what I knew I personally wanted to each list might be a little different but feel free to use this as a starting point or template.


What to bring/pack:


Camera
Phone chargers
Insurance ID & any hospital paperwork
Reusable bag (for gifts, etc.)
Music & any other birthing materials/images
Birth plan copies
Baby's memory book
Books/magazines
Snacks
Gift(s) for the nurses - Not totally necessary but a nice gesture

Car seat & base installed
Receiving blankets

Flip flips (if not wearing them to)
Bathrobe - Most hospitals have these so you can likely avoid packing this one
Clothes for labor - Hospitals provide the gown but if you want to wear your own clothes
Bathing suit for tub labor (if planning)
Underwear - Go get some comfortable black briefs
Outfits for mom - Two outfits are probably sufficient and I will likely just pack yoga pants and tank tops
Outfits for dad
Outfits for baby - You might be surprised at how many you go through
Slippers
Baby nail clippers - Not all hospitals have them
Hat for baby - I am not a big fan of the hospital hats (purely based off looks) so I will bring some of our own

Toiletries for showering, etc.
Pillows - I will probably bring at least 3
Cot or sleeping pad & sleeping bag for dad - We have a cot and it's much more comfortable than a stiff hospital couch but this is totally personal preference

Breast pads
Nipple cream
Nursing tanks & bras
Gel pads
Nursing pillow
Breast pump

What not to bring/pack: 
Jewelry
Certain medications - check with your Dr. on these
Your own pads - Unless you're pads are way better than what they might provide at the hospital, you can leave these at home
Diapers and wipes - The hospital provides these

Even looking at my list, it seems like a lot! Try not to over pack and if there are items you think you can leave off your list, by all means, do. Remember that when you get home with that beautiful newborn baby, you are going to need to unpack and you will probably not be in the mood or have the stamina to put everything away if you packed like a hoarder. 

Feel free to add your own comments, thoughts or items below based on your experience or what you've heard from other parents!


Tuesday, April 9, 2013

Need or Not? The Nursery


Putting together the baby nursery is probably one of the most important parts of expecting a new baby. While some people may have the budget to go out and buy all new things, many people must decorate on a budget. Whatever is your situation, there are certain things every new mom needs in the nursery.

Changing Station


There are many amazing changing tables out there equipped with all the necessities, but if you can't afford to splurge on one, consider placing a changing pad on the top of a dresser (which you'll need for baby's clothes anyway). I found an old dresser no one was using and painted it to match my nursery colors. Each changing table should hold the wipes, diaper cream, and baby lotion. I also have some hand sanitizer close by for use after cleaning up an especially messy diaper.

I suggest using a diaper pail of some sort because they are designed to contain the smell. I have mine placed next to the dresser, and have a long-lasting air freshener on the inside of the pail as well, because some stink tends to leak out. The only draw back to using a diaper genie or similar product is that they run out of bags fairly often, and they aren't the cheapest thing to have to buy on a continual basis.

Because I used the dresser for my changing table, I have some fabric bins and a diaper storage station nearby. In the bins are: extra crib sheets, changing pad covers and blankets. In the storage station are: extra diapers, wipes, burp cloths, bibs, towels/washrags, and extra toiletries and miscellaneous items, such as: extra diaper bags, a thermometer, hair brush, nail clippers, nasal aspiratorcotton swabs, rubbing alcohol, and baby medicine (including baby tylenol, gas X, and teething tablets).

Glider/Seating Station


I highly recommend putting some sort of rocking chair or glider in the nursery. I didn't have one of these in the very beginning and I wish I had. Now that my baby is sleeping in her own room (we had her in our room for the first four months) it's very nice to be able to sit with her in her room as we wind her down for bedtime. It's a great spot to nurse, especially in the middle of the night. Consider buying a bobby or other nursing pillow. I found mine was super helpful when I was still struggling with nursing in the beginning. They hold up newborn babies very well. Older babies can use the pillow when learning to sit on their own. I always keep a burp cloth and extra blanket on the chair as well. Having a lamp next to the chair is great for reading to your baby, too.

Crib/Sleeping Station





While we used a bassinet next to our bed for the first few months, eventually you will need a crib. Make sure you use fitted crib sheets. As recommended by everyone these days, there should be nothing in the crib with your new baby, not even a blanket. Instead, you can use "sleep sacks" to keep your baby warm. Crib bumpers are also not recommended. We use one because our baby likes to sleep with her head pushed all the way up against the bars, but we didn't install it until she was old enough to be able to move around well on her own.There are mesh breathable crib bumpers you can use if you want a safer bumper. We use a light up musical glow worm sleep toy to help her fall asleep which she seems to like. I highly recommend getting a video monitor if you can afford it. I love being able to actually see my baby while she's sleeping and not just hear her, so I can be double sure she is safe. We have a night light in her room, which is great to be able to feed her in the middle of the night while it's still dark so as to keep her sleepy. We also use an air filter, but not so much for the cleaner air, but more for the white noise, which is supposed to be helpful for babies when falling asleep. You could get a crib mobile too, but we actually ended up never using the one we had.

Clothing, Toys and Accessories


As before mentioned, of course you'll need a dresser of some sort for baby's clothes. You will also need hangers for baby jackets and dresses. Since I had a little girl, I painted an old wooden container and it holds her hair clips. I put some nails in the wall for a place to hang her headbands. I have a toy chest and a bookshelf for all her stuffed animals, books and random toys. As for the big toys (such as play mat, swing, vibrating chairs, jumpers etc.), these tend to move from room to room, so I haven't included them in the nursery check-list.

Nursery decor, of course, is not a necessity and therefore I haven't included it in this list. After all, your baby won't really care how his or her room looks as long as the basics are there. I will, however, talk about some nursery decorating ideas in a later post. 

You may find that this list isn't perfect for your unique situation. All I can give are recommendations based on my own experiences and wish you good luck in setting up your nursery!

Saturday, April 6, 2013

Need or Not? The Diaper Bag


When purchasing a diaper bag, you should look for one that is large and has a lot of pockets and compartments. Since it will many times double up as a purse, you may also want something at least semi-stylish since you'll be toting it around for probably many years to come.

Before having my baby, I researched what things I'd need in my diaper bag. Here is what I ended up actually using. I have listed items at both the newborn stage and the 6+ months stage:

Newborn

-extra diapers, 10 or so
-pack of wipes
-a couple extra pairs of clothes for baby
-extra pair of socks
-extra warm hat
-jacket
-extra blanket
-extra burp cloth or two
-disposable changing pads or a waterproof travel pad
-changing head pillow
-baby health kit, including thermometer, nail clips, hair brush
-pacifier
-hand sanitizer
-foldable baby sling
-diaper cream
-extra shirt for you in case baby makes a mess of the one you're wearing
-camera
-bottle of water for yourself
-if breast feeding: nursing cover, lanolin (for sore nips), nipple leak bra pads
-if bottle feeding: extra bottle and formula
For the car:
-stroller
-nursing pillow

In the very beginning after giving birth, you may also want to pack extra maxi pads/panty liners and your painkillers/vitamins.
It's much easier to use the diaper bag as your purse, especially when you are still recovering and having to lug around the car seat too. So I made sure to also pack my wallet, cell phone, chap stick, lotion, and anything else I usually carry in my purse.

6 Months and Older

-extra diapers, 5 or so
-pack of wipes
-extra pair of clothes for baby
-extra socks
-extra hat, weather dependent
-jacket
-blanket
-burp cloth
-bib
-changing pad
-baby health kit, including hairbrush, thermometer, nail clips
-hand sanitizer
-sunscreen
-a few toys
-baby food, which may include oatmeal, rice, canned food, puffs and formula
-spoon and food container
-bottle
-if still nursing: nursing cover
-baby vitamin drops (we use a multi-vitamin with vitamin K)
-baby lotion and/or diaper cream
-camera
-hair accessories, if applicable
-bottle of water for yourself
For the car:
-stroller
-grocery cart cover
-pack n' play

You may or may not use the diaper bag as your purse at this point because it might be moved around more often as different people take care of the baby. You will probably also stop carrying around the car seat since baby is usually big enough to sit in a grocery cart or high chair and may not be spending as much time in the seat as before.

Through your own experience with your baby, you will find the things you may or may not need that best suit your situation. These are just the things I have found useful, and I hope they help you in preparing your own diaper bag.